Photo 21 Feb 53 notes nerdylolita:


“If you didn’t know this about me, it’s not because I’ve actively kept it from you.   Rape isn’t a topic that comes up in everyday, casual conversation, and  even when it is topical, mentioning that you, personally, are a rape  victim is a good way to get people whispering that you’re “playing the  pity card,” or narcissistic by focusing the conversation on yourself.   And, often, someone decides to play armchair psychologist, deducing that  a laundry list of your character defects can be traced back to “that.”    I am a successful businesswoman & entrepreneur.  I have  loving girlfriends and excellent, loyal, funny, warm friends.  I am  possessed of a big temper and a bigger personality.  I’m proof that a  raped person is not, inherently, a weak or wimpy person.   Mommy, I’m sorry I never told you.  I don’t let my weaknesses or flaws define me, and I don’t let my rape define me, either. But there isn’t a day that goes by that my actions, small or large, are  not a little bit influenced by what was done to me eight years ago.   And the picture I posted an hour ago - of the redhead with a sign - made  me realize that a very big action of mine - being a shamed, “invisible”  rape victim - isn’t one that the spectre of a horrible night can force  me to continue doing. In this case, don’t wonder if “Like”ing  this status would be offensive. LIKE the shit out of this, and repost it  if you feel the urge.  I’m not the girl in this picture anymore, but it  still makes me sick to my stomach to post this anyway.  And that’s  fucked up - that that guy from eight years ago can make me feel like  this, here now, that putting on old clothes and an old hat can make my  skin crawl.  And that’s why I’m coming “out” as a rape survivor.”

-Emily of Nightingale Needles

I really admire her courage. Please check out her page and here is the picture she was referring to in her statement:

nerdylolita:

“If you didn’t know this about me, it’s not because I’ve actively kept it from you. Rape isn’t a topic that comes up in everyday, casual conversation, and even when it is topical, mentioning that you, personally, are a rape victim is a good way to get people whispering that you’re “playing the pity card,” or narcissistic by focusing the conversation on yourself. And, often, someone decides to play armchair psychologist, deducing that a laundry list of your character defects can be traced back to “that.”

I am a successful businesswoman & entrepreneur. I have loving girlfriends and excellent, loyal, funny, warm friends. I am possessed of a big temper and a bigger personality. I’m proof that a raped person is not, inherently, a weak or wimpy person.

Mommy, I’m sorry I never told you. I don’t let my weaknesses or flaws define me, and I don’t let my rape define me, either.

But there isn’t a day that goes by that my actions, small or large, are not a little bit influenced by what was done to me eight years ago. And the picture I posted an hour ago - of the redhead with a sign - made me realize that a very big action of mine - being a shamed, “invisible” rape victim - isn’t one that the spectre of a horrible night can force me to continue doing.

In this case, don’t wonder if “Like”ing this status would be offensive. LIKE the shit out of this, and repost it if you feel the urge. I’m not the girl in this picture anymore, but it still makes me sick to my stomach to post this anyway. And that’s fucked up - that that guy from eight years ago can make me feel like this, here now, that putting on old clothes and an old hat can make my skin crawl. And that’s why I’m coming “out” as a rape survivor.”

-Emily of Nightingale Needles

I really admire her courage. Please check out her page and here is the picture she was referring to in her statement:


Photo 31 Dec 20 notes rapeculturemakesmeangry:

Submission in answer to the Slut Walk picture. Thank you :)

Does it really look like I asked for it?

rapeculturemakesmeangry:

Submission in answer to the Slut Walk picture. Thank you :)

Does it really look like I asked for it?

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Slut Walk NYC
Taken: September 2011
Camera: Nikon D40
Subject: Slut Walk
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(photo by Francesca June)

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